I may cop a lot of flack for this post, because it will touch on body issues and confidence but read ahead before you criticise it.
First of all, let’s start by realising that the mind is designed for the body. What do I mean by this? If you have ever been a person who has lost a lot of weight or gained a lot of weight and become unhealthy as the response, the mind reacts. Overweight or underweight, even WITH support by your side and WITHOUT a negative media influence or negative people around you I will guarantee not only physiologically you’ll be unhealthy but psychologically you’ll be unhealthy. You can spiral into depression, because your body is not made to be where it currently is. It is unhealthy.
Now I am not saying it’s as easy as just fixing it, but the worst thing you can do is attempt to accept it. Your mind is reacting negatively for a reason. Sometimes being too underweight or too overweight will lead you to achieve the exact opposite of what your body and mind wants; healthy. Your mind wants to achieve healthy, but unfortunately it works in a counterproductive form.
Unfortunately media and bullying exacerbates this counter productivity created by the mind and leads to all sorts of issues. As I said, though, the worst thing to do is accept it.
I see many people trying to accept that they are bigger and say they have accepted and happy that they are a bigger person. Why? So you can live 10 years less than everybody else? That confidence is only superficial, your mind is trying to do everything to counteract that smile on your face that you’re big, your arteries are clogged, or maybe that your skin is wrapped around your bones with not enough muscle that you struggle to walk up stairs.
Body issues are becoming more and more common, but lets not just link it to the media and bullying. I understand it is a touchy issue to some and that chemicals in the mind can lead to this being hard to resolve or never resolvable, but more common than not there is some onus on your back too. Do not accept the unhealthy, just because you want to prove a point that you can be happy without making effort to change your lifestyle - it will still lead you down a bad path.
Genetically the mind is made for the body. If the body is not healthy, the mind is not healthy. If the mind is not healthy, the body is not healthy.
I will always be around to listen to any issues you may have, and I am sure many others around you are. I will always be supportive and helpful for any of you that wish to get healthy. Be smart about it and be healthy.
